Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.
But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't stop my eyes looking)...
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I've talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...
Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called "10's." In one word they are women of another "breed," but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your "perfect girl."
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true "10" and is the one that's perfect for you.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
She knows what you're about and sees you as shallow.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me explain it.
You shouldn't treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.
First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.
The so-called "10's" has two different types.
The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10's are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives they've probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
May sound harsh but I call it like it is.
These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10's women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
You'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level - it's what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently... you'll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you'll also enjoy a lot of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.
Vin
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