1. Conversation begins with a question, so if you want to get thiings going then you need to ask a question. Women like guy's who are interested in their opinion and what they think and this is a simple way to get conversation going.
2. Seek their assistance with something. Women like to feel wanted and needed, so if you ask for their help and if the request is not too complicated then you will find that they will eagerly want to help you. The key of course is to keep it simple.
3. Compliments when appropiate are powerful. When you are chatting up a girl and you hardly know her don't over do it with the compliments becasue they will have no merit. Sure you can make small compliments about her appearance but just don't lay it on thick. That can be scary. If she is wearing nice shoes ask her where she got them so as to continue conversation.
4. Buy her a drink. This is one of the oldest methods to begin a conversation with a woman and it still works today. Remember that this doesn't have to be in a bar. You can buy a woman a drink in a restaurant, a caf?, or any place that serves drinks.
5. Get her to dance. This does not mean you have to be in a club, you can actually do this anywhere there is music playing, now before you think I am crazy there is an underlying theme and that is humor, women love spontaneity and humor, you may not dance but the gesture is enough.
6. Introduce yourself. If you cannot think of something creative to say and you still want to talk to her then just introduce yourself. You don't always have to have something creative to say or do in order to talk to a woman. Just say hi and see if she will talk to you, you might be surprised.
7. Don't get your underwear in a twist, do not take yourself too seriously, you know we all have fears and it is through our common humanity that we can strike up a relationship. Enjoy, and relax.
Chatting up a girl is not as hard as some guys make it out to be. If you want to talk to a girl then be natural and be yourself.
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