There are three reasons for this.
The first reason is may be new to you - being socially proactive.
I recall when I first started lifting weights, I didn't have upper pectoral muscles - the muscle at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.
Actually I do have a small muscle but it was so weak that I can't even feel them. So every time worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms. And it took me three good weeks to really feel them.
And then I reached the point where the muscle was developed that I could handle heavy weight without all the fatigue and soreness. Same as in your mind.
You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to the level of your skills. Because developing a new neuro-pathways will take time.
The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is too much to do or learn when meeting women.
Actually this is more on having an overwhelmed feeling and has somewhat a little different from "fatigue."
One way that can frazzle your mind is when you are overwhelmed by something. And this can lead to some sort of discouragement, exhaustion and depression. It's like your body saying "Whew, enough for this much work, I'm quitting before I can even begin"
This will hinder you from doing any progress. I was in this situation when I was putting a lot of theories on my notes. And as I looked at them I've seen that I am just like looking for a huge and complex physics equation.
Doing ALL of this stuff just to had a quality women in my life was so discouraging to think.
The last reason for feeling exhausted in the dating and mating game is that you are spending too much mental energy in the wrong places, wasting your focus on stuff that isn't useful to pickup.
Many men fails in attracting women and in fact almost 99% of men gets it wrong. Usually the women can't tell because most men after a harsh rejections learn to keep their inner "stuff" to their self.
But this doesn't deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.
As what we have seen and heard in the media, from our parents and friends - generally it lets us know that man's role is to IMPRESS the woman and in return a woman will sleep with you.
Ridiculous!
I hate seeing an advertisement of a guy that bumbling around a cute girl trying to impress her, even though he looks like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better than him because she's a girl.
So much for that... what I'm trying to imply here is that when it comes to the matter of controlling a date, guys are being screwed.
But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.
You need to get the most out of your body and mind so that it can lead you to the highest level of your interaction with women and that's what's really attractive.
A GUY AT HIS BEST.
About the Author:
Vin DiCarlo is an expert seduction guru, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified
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