If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10", then you should read this letter.
But first off, let go waaay back...
When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.
That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can't take my eyes off away from her)...
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.
A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.
I've talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...
Ah, the hard to tame "10," a perfect girl that every guy dream of but never seems to have it.
I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The only true "10" is the one that's perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
A woman knows what you're thinking and sees you as shallow.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another "level" beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.
As I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me clarify.
You shouldn't treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.
First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for the benefits of yours, I'll give you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10's. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives they've probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Now high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.
But you'll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you'll also enjoy a lot of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.
Vin
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