First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.
You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.
However, in any bar, club, or even a day-time situation, there are LOTS of horny women who would be open to getting down with you that same day or night. You just have to know how to spot these women.
I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a reason.
The general reason is that women wants an attention and be approach. Although this isn't always be the reason but a a lot of time it is the case.
I also look for women who are being loud and animated. They are subconsciously looking for attention from men.
Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you'll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.
These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.
Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.
Just be light, social, and let them know you are interested in meeting them. A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough.
The key here is not to openly discuss getting in sensual or that you are looking to take her home. You see, if you talk about that, you'll put her on the spot and make her agree to bang with you, implicitly.
Instead you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This will be against a woman's "rules" and she'll definitely be keeping distance from you. And you really need a logistic information to know how you can get her back to your place.
The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.
Just enjoy yourself while escalating appropriately and have a willingness to control the situation.
It may sound counter intuitive, but that's how it works.
You have to believe that women wants to have sex and a lot of women in the place wants to have a fast getting laid down.
Some won't, but some will, and that's why it's key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.
I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.
It will just be a waste of time.
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