Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women?
And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?
READ ON if you answered YES those questions.
Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.
Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.
Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.
Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have to do everything to move things forward.
In your approach, you have to have the courage.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Not to mention there are much higher standards for men's behavior than women.
(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")
That can be debilitating, especially if you don't have an "extroverted" trait.
...I just had a client who often complained of "extroversion fatigue."
I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.
Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
What I do is to have a sit and rest!
Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home absolutely dead
... from TALKING TO WOMEN!
That things makes any sense???
And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.
I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!
I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).
I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.
I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.
If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.
About the Author:
Vin DiCarlo is a expert pick up artist guru, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.
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