Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.
But first off, let go waaay back...
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't stop my eyes looking)...
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart...
Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have a lot to say about the concept of "10's," In deeper sense they are another "breed" of women, but it is on the way they think that makes them so.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your "perfect girl."
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true "10".
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10's in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
A woman knows what you're thinking and sees you as shallow.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me explain it.
You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
The high self-esteem, and the low self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10's. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives they've probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Now high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
You'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level - it's what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently... you'll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
The woman will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you'll also enjoy a lot of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.
Vin
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