Sunday, August 3, 2008

5 Ways to Get Your Ex Back Today

By Rebecca Joiner


Step #1 : You are hot under your collar. This is not the time to Text or Dial that ex. This is a time to wait and cool off

Step #2 : Because of your emotional state you can not really easily find a reason as to what happened. If you begin to get poetic and professing your undying love you will push them away rather than pull them towards you. Just know that right now any seemingly "logical" arguments are not as logical as they might sound.

Step #3 You have many top quality assets. Now is a good time to think about them. If you haven't taken time for your self, do it now... work on yourself...Don't waste your time - yours and theirs- to try to change them or their mind. It is ME time now.

Step #4 Do people scurry away from you because you have a sign on your head that says desperate, or needy or even worse depressed. My advice is to go out with some friends and lighten up. It is much attractive to your ex and to other potential new mates as well if you appear to be happy and engaging.

Step #5 If you decided to follow the advice in step 4 you might just decide to go out on a date. Sometimes going out with someone new can be just what the doctor ordered for many valid reasons. Get out of the house and out of your head. This alone will help you boost your confidence.

These are only 5 Steps to getting back with your ex. If you are one of the many people that are trying to get back with your ex try these steps out today.

I encourage you to feel like there is hope for you now. By feeling confident it can be the best opportunity to win back the heart of the one they love.

These 5 steps worked for me and saved my relationship. Everyone goes through some rough patches as they come naturally to a long term partnership. I wish you the best in getting your ex back.

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