Monday, August 4, 2008

One Night Stands and the Pick Up Artist II

By Vin DiCarlo


There's one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.

Bringing a girl home doesn't based on whether she is open or not in going home with a guy, sure maybe you can her number but it varies widely on particular night.

However, there are LOTS of horny women moving around the clubs and bar anytime of the day that are open in getting lay that same day or night. And all you have to do is have a knowledge and ability to spot them.

Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.

The general reason is that women wants an attention and be approach. Although this isn't always be the reason but a a lot of time it is the case.

You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.

Lastly, another good prospect are woman that are looking around the room more than the other girls that she's with. Also a group of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room are another prospect.

They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for someone to approach them.

Now you have to take this in mind -- Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.

A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. It's just have to be social, delicate and showing that you are interested in meeting them.

You should not openly discuss to the woman that you are looking to take her home and get her into bed. Because, if you talk about that, you're putting a woman to a point where is to agree to implicitly bang with you.

Instead you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This is against her "rules" and will force her to keep you at a distance. You're also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.

The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.

You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.

It may sound counter intuitive, but that's how it works.

You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.

Some will and some won't, and what you should know is to figure out and proceed to get them.

You don't want to put a lot of effort and time with the wrong girl or to pick the right girl and then mess it up after a very long interaction.

It's not worth wasting your time for that.

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