There are 'magic' words that you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls. It sounds too good to be true, but there are some words that will just about put a spell on your ex and make them return your calls. Cool huh?...
I am going to tell you about this beakthrough because this is one of the biggest questions from many thousands people from all over the world, that are trying to put their relationships back together.
So, what I'm going to do is explain to you the magic of making up and getting your ex to call you. But, first a warning. In the eBook the "Magic Of Making Up" their strategy is completely laid out and if you use this strategy alone, without an underlying plan you may destroy your relationship even more than if they never returned any of your calls.
Now, before we get into the actual words, let's go over the message that is very wrong and will never work and much, much worse, it puts you in a bad 'psychological' position.
These fall into 2 categories. The PLEADING CATEGORY- And that is when your message sounds like this: "John / Mary, please, please call me. This is the 20th time that I have called you. I have to talk twith you now. Pleeease call me back"
Did you get it? Now there is the EMERGENCY TYPE call which goes something like this. "John / Mary, this is an emergency. You need to call me as soon as you get this message."
So, can you see what's wrong with both of these approaches? I won't go on and on... What you really need to use to gain an advantage is to create curiosity and self interest. These are two of the most powerful forces in the human mind.
But wait, here's the big secret! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that will work just like magic. So let's see just what you can say that will work almost each and every time.
In a friendly manner try this. "Hi John / Mary. This is Cindy / Bob. I just wanted to let you know I sure appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I would like to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses both curiosity and self interest? John / Mary won't be able to resist! He or she will think.. "What did I do?" "What does she/he appreciate?" And he/she will feel good because it is a very positive message.
Before you make that all important call you should do a "Set Up".. And that is trying to figure out what he/she did that you appreciated so much. It can be anything. Think!
Now this is very IMPORTANT... You have to have an underlying strategy. If not, it won't work! What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important, than getting them to return your call. Does that make sense to you. Great! Now go out and DO IT. You'll be glad you did!
About the Author:
MsMimee is the seeker of life changing revelations. She has authored lots of articles that change lives for the better. She prays this is one of them that helps you. Did you see the Magic of Making Up helpful? If so, for access to more helpful tips Click Here Now.
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