By Vin DiCarlo
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you'll find this letter very interesting.
But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't stop my eyes looking)...
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly...but I chickened out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I've talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...
Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.
To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true "10".
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.
Why?
Because every other guy does that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.
As I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me clarify.
You shouldn't treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.
Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10's women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women are motivated to put an extra effort because they know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here's the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently... you'll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't spend another year missing something that you could've been enjoying right now.
Vin
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