Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
"Doofus dad" syndrome is another societal factor that I'm going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are "better."
You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.
But here's the thing - if you are giving a woman too much time, you won't be present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.
After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.
This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.
Now my girlfriends can't get enough of me - in fact, I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already have.
I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
Just be real with her - don't spend more time that you want. no need of games.
Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.
Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I'll have to cover in another newsletter.
It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
You should think that women aren't property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
Investing all your time with a woman is not a guarantee that you can "keep" her.
One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That's ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.
You see, it usually comes from the social norm if you are following your true ways.
If you are in the mental habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you, you will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first.
That's why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And no, we don't intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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